Wednesday, May 23, 2012

Snagging a Great Wedding Disc Jockey for Your Event

It's easy to become a wedding disc jockey. That's why there are thousands of them out there offering themselves out there offering their services when you try a search engine. But not everyone who claims to be one is one. The changes in art - there are no authorizing bodies or anything. You'll just have to depend on word-of-mouth and reputation to find a qualified disc spinner for your wedding.

They can be rather hard to pick but if you think about it, it can be quite hard too to learn about how good the wedding disc jockey is through a friend or family member. How good you end up thinking a DJ is depends in large part on what you think of this tastes in music. If 80s bubblegum pop is your friend's idea of feel-good music while you think that it should be Frank Sinatra and big band all the way, chances are that your friends DJ recommendation will really not count for much with you.

A far better idea would be to approach a local radio station that plays music that you like, and talk to them. They'll be likely to point you in the right direction. You could also consider talking to hotels and resorts that rent space out to weddings. Those managers are quite likely to know all kinds of DJs and have references.

Of course, whoever you ask, you do have to stay alert to the possibility that they could have a deal with the said DJ. You actually have to go out and say to them that if they give you the name of a good DJ and you end up liking him and hiring him, they'll get a cut.

Know how they say that the music you listen to has soundtrack to your life? Long after memories of your wedding have faded, you and your guests will still remember how great the music was. And if it isn't good music that your choice of wedding disc jockey plays, everyone can remember that as well. So basically, you don't want to rush anything. Be sure to narrow your list down to at least five DJs, and do interview them. Ask to see video recordings of some of the recent work.

Basically, you want to look out for someone who can really gauge the mood of the crowd and play the right kind of music for them. Wherever your wedding is, whatever kind of venue your wedding is at, do make sure that your choice of wedding disc jockey has experienced playing there. The size of the place, the kind of atmosphere they have there at your venue - your disk jockey has to be familiar with all that and to really be able to gauge what will go over well. If he actually played at the very venue, that should be considered an added bonus.

And finally, make sure that it's the very person you chose who has come to show up at your wedding - not an underling or an understudy. They do that often.

Sunday, May 20, 2012

Wording for Wedding Invitations

Getting married can be a trying affair, but you should not stress so much that you do not appreciate and enjoy getting there. Your wedding day is important, but it is also just one day. Take your time with planning, keep your wits about you, and learn to role with the punches. Something is always going to go wrong, but you can control many things that concern you the most. If you are a stickler for details, you want the perfect paper trail that includes invitation, programs, and thank you letters. You can even come up with your own wording for wedding invitations.

You can always get your invitations already made and choose from the finished wording that you included with the ones that you choose. You can also go about writing your own, or you can do all of the work and make your own wedding invitations from scratch. This can take some time but it is also a unique touch that can be all about you and your intended. What you can do is come up with your own wording or you can find wording for wedding invitations that others have used that suit your wedding personality.

There are some general rules that those that write wording for wedding invitations use for most examples of what you can get. Typically, brides are listed first and the grooms second. This means you would write something like: "Mr and Mrs Parents of the Bride and Mr and Mrs Parents of the Groom." You can also simply use your own names also. This would be: "Bride Maiden Name and Groom." You can also word things if just the mother of one or the grandparents of the other are hosting the wedding. You can find examples for just about any situation of which you can think to guide you.

The next part of wording for wedding invitations is announcing the wedding, ceremony, rite, etc., to which the guests are being invited. This is followed by the location, date and time. These bits of information are the most important things that any guests needs to know so that they can show up at the right place at the right time. Most agree that all numbers in such an invitation should be spelled out. This means you write 'One-twenty three' rather than '123' for the street address. The time, date, and any other information should also be spelled out. This looks more formal.

Remember that even though you can use traditional wording for wedding invitations, you do not have to do something that is not your style. If you want to write it out in a poem, you can do that. Your wedding is your own and that should be reflected in everything that you do. Some people like to use the traditions that their parents and grandparents used, and some want to go their own way completely. Don't feel fenced in by tradition if that is not what you want. If someone else is footing the bill and insisting on tradition that you do not want, compromise so you get at least some of what you want. Weddings should be happy occasions and should bring your families together. Keep that in mind.

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Wedding Websites For Your Wedding On a Budget

The average American wedding today costs about $29,000 - a number that's far higher than it ever used to be. Still, there are plenty of us who cannot afford this kind of thing. We are looking for every way possible to cut back on the unnecessary. And for that, these wedding websites will truly be of help.

Wedding venues cost a lot of money. The best way to cut down on those expenses would be to do away with renting a proper permanent structure for the festivities. Lots of people either rent time at a public park or something, or they hire a place like a local public school auditorium that was never meant for such a thing. Well, whatever you do like this, you're going to need plenty of help brightening and prettifying the place up cheaply. These wedding websites will help you do exactly that.

Whatever non-purpose built venue you're choosing for your wedding or related festivities if you're looking for ideas on decorating the place up on a budget, your first stop should be ClassicPartyRentals. If you're looking to class the place up with tables, linens and place settings - or even tents if your venue of choice is a public park or beach - then this is your place.

A lot of people decide that they want to go unconventional and quirky with their budget wedding. And it's good idea. You can be completely ready with the stuff they sell you at LunaBazaar. If you want all kinds of origami goodies to brighten the place up, this is the place for you. For paper parasols, lanterns and everything else, wedding websites like these are the places to head to.

Know what would really help when you try to trick a venue out with pretty personalized decorations? Ribbons and seashells, of course. Try CreamCityRibbon and JamaliGarden.

And of course, the invitations shouldn't cost money. Go with ImpressRubberstamps, and stamp out all your invitations in a second.

What wedding would be complete without flowers? And yet, something as simple as flowers for your wedding can completely trip you up. They are that expensive. That's what you need the CrimsonPoppy for. Not only do they make just about any flower you want out of paper that's completely believable, you get paper rose petals to strew down the aisle like confetti, too.

Weddings on a budget are big business today. Businesses constantly come up with such new and attractive ideas, you couldn't do any better if you spent a lot of money.

Monday, May 14, 2012

Getting the Right Card Blanks - Your First Step to Great Wedding stationery

Whether you plan to go the DIY route with your wedding invitations or  to completely work with a professional wedding card printer, it really comes down to you and your personal sense of what's pretty, the kind of a wedding stationery that you choose.

The most basic part of your wedding stationery of course is the card stock that you will use to print your wedding invitations on. When you finally decide to go with a particular kind of card stock, you can use it for every kind of  wedding stationery - the save the date card, the RSVP card, the invitation itself, the wedding reception invitation, the thank you note - you get the picture.

The kind of wedding stationery you choose - the card stock in this case - can play an important part in how your invitations turn out. The card stock you choose decides how the invitation will feel in your hand when a wedding guest holds it. It decides how the printing will actually look on the card, how substantial it will feel, what the texture will make the guest feel like, and so on. Some really finicky brides will go so far as to  pick a card for how it smells. Which isn't a bad idea, if you would think about it.

Once you have your card stock, you can prepare your wedding stationery in any one of several ways. You can either go to work with a professional printer or have a professional design printed on them, or you could go the DIY route. You could handcraft every invitation painting lettering on by hand, you could go with a rubber stamp idea - stamping all invitations out quickly. What you decide to put the design will determine how your invitations end up looking at the end.

Go to the store to buy wedding stationery, and you'll find that they have card blanks in just about any paper quality, shape, color, size and weight that you could imagine. If you have a large enough order and are willing to pay for it, they'll even custom-make your card stock with kind of size, paper, color or anything else that you ask for.

How heavy the card is that you choose will have a lot to say for how your invitations turn out, and for how much all that will end up costing you. Of course, heavy card is bound to be more expensive. But apart from that, you'll have to be prepared to pay for and better more to have these sent over the mail, too.

As always, picking what's available ready-made off-the-shelf and will make it cheaper for you. Get a card of reasonable ready-made thickness, pick a style and shape that's often used, and you'll save money.